tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post7457004608421341880..comments2023-09-09T10:29:29.789-05:00Comments on The Green Room: Everything is HarderAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17709842445396738547noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-82328140131391522812013-06-13T23:32:14.408-05:002013-06-13T23:32:14.408-05:00yes. xo hugging you inside me now. xoyes. xo hugging you inside me now. xostudioGypsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08219378884009346355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-87242139904297936532013-05-28T13:44:41.169-05:002013-05-28T13:44:41.169-05:00I have a child in heaven and 20 years has only cre...I have a child in heaven and 20 years has only created a kind of fragile crust around the memories, a place that never feels warm in my heart. I went through the motions for a while, then they seemed more natural. Now they are natural, but it angers me sometimes that people don't seem to see the hurt, the pain that erupts sideways as my right. Hold the people around you tighter, work through the feelings with them, "The only way out is through."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-61202046752791233802013-03-26T08:14:03.749-06:002013-03-26T08:14:03.749-06:00loss is bold like A crime against you.At first you...loss is bold like A crime against you.At first your just shocked, but the real damage is that you know your life will never be the same. Your faced with the why's, how's,what ifs, how comes.<br /><br />I Dont know much but I know this a dim lit wick He will not stuff out. We are all here to help you fan the flame . sending love from florida E.Mb<br /><br />E<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-17887669302300347132013-03-25T16:34:23.410-06:002013-03-25T16:34:23.410-06:00Everything you said, and everything Jeanie said to...Everything you said, and everything Jeanie said too.Anna D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16935803988870604170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-26399169923935905692013-03-25T14:45:01.545-06:002013-03-25T14:45:01.545-06:00Grief is incredibly hard, exhausting work, and you...Grief is incredibly hard, exhausting work, and your post takes us with you into the absolute horror of what it feels like. My heart hurts too...for you, for Mr. Peevie, and for M and C Peevie. <br /><br />But I also feel grateful for you and your ability to articulate this so well. For anyone who is grieving or has ever grieved these words are the truth. As I read I kept thinking, yes this is exactly how it feels.<br /><br />As always you are a truth teller.jeaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14788035766865224029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-5477670866456181592013-03-25T09:43:39.467-06:002013-03-25T09:43:39.467-06:00Eve, I think of you often, you are so right when y...Eve, I think of you often, you are so right when you say there are no words. I just had a friend sharing with me yesterday about how hard this week was for her, she lost her husband one year ago and she is reliving all of the feelings of this time last year, she said people tell you grief gets better with time but she said she doesn't feel it getting easier but rather harder...there is no answer for the right way to deal with grief...you just deal with where you are, and whatever you are feeling. I hate to hear you beating yourself up with the what if's something happened differently, but I'm sure I would do the same thing...in the end though the outcome was that God brought him home and someday he will bring you home too! I know that doesn't make things any easier here and now, but I know the Lord loves you dearly, as he does Aidan and the rest of your lovely Peevie family...you will all continue to be in my prayers.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14803817413428791289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-13845975364808494422013-03-25T08:23:15.325-06:002013-03-25T08:23:15.325-06:00Awww, a CAMO comforter?! So he could hide in his o...Awww, a CAMO comforter?! So he could hide in his own bed! That struck me as funny. But my smile fully disappeared as I read on. The conflict of wanting to feel better after four months, yet never wanting to feel better in a way... very interesting, and thank you for sharing your heart with me, Eve.<br /><br />Recently recalled that school play we saw in which Aidan was in the chorus, I think. I don't think I ever laughed so hard through a whole production of (was it Fiddler, or Sound of Music? Don't recall the plot but remember how hilarious and wonderful it was)... No more wonderful plays with Aidan... <br /><br />God bless you and every Peevie today.Broke but Happyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02997458325162096813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3247899948019262860.post-43868054535734630752013-03-24T20:18:58.374-06:002013-03-24T20:18:58.374-06:00I was his Sunday school teacher when he was a todd...I was his Sunday school teacher when he was a toddler. He was a brave tiny man!<br /><br />When I woulld watch the movies of Jesus' life every Easter as a kid I remember hoping something different would happen so he wouldon't end up dying in the end. Just thought of that reading your post here.Smile that smilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14254304070328558466noreply@blogger.com